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Why are singles Christians waiting for sex?

Does True Love really wait?

How far is too far?

Those are the questions that everyone asks.

The answers seem so cut and dried. Thou Shalt Not. Fun, right? But what if all these questions we’re asking are the wrong ones? What if there’s something bigger, something that makes it all make sense?

That’s what Ally Spotts addresses in her new ebook, Asking All The Wrong Questions: Why Christians are Waiting for Marriage for Sex.

This isn’t another I Kissed Dating Goodbye. 

Ally isn’t the next Elisabeth Elliot.

You can’t put her up on a pedestal. She’s real. And it’s refreshing.

Ally is a normal 20something who wanted answers to the questions in her life. The ones about sex, purity, and relationships. Pretty much the ones that all of us want the answers to. We keep asking the questions because we aren’t getting the answers we need.

Instead of being fake and settling for regurgitating all the pat answers she learned in youth group, Ally pulls off the masks she’s worn for years and shares her own story. Of learning her value. Of learning what holiness means. And of coming to the realization that a solid relationship is built on trust. It’s a vulnerable spot to write from but the message is solid.

Ally brings it back to God.

What is HIS heart for sexuality?

Why does He even care?

How did He design relationships to work?

The ebook isn’t incredibly long. But it is incredibly deep. Ally has a way of writing succinctly. Her words may be simple but her message will linger long after you finish the book.

I’m passing the book on to my high school and college age sisters. There is so much to the message of purity that I didn’t understand when I was their age. I wish someone would have explained it this way before.

The ebook is only $0.99 but the information is priceless. Download a copy here.