...sometimes, the words just come out too quickly and I can't take them back. I'm a Christian, columnist, would-be novelist, and Social Media Manager. Oh, and I'm adventure-prone. That sounds much more charming than accident-prone, doesn't it?
12 for 2012

12 for 2012

This year, I'm working on 12 for 2012. Twelve what? Resolutions, fiats, or grand schemes. Whatever they are, the 12 for 2012 list is going to happen.
What I've Learned About Love This Year

What I’ve Learned About Love This Year

It's been a heck of a year in the dating department. I've been a girlfriend, a distraction, and a best friend. Here's what I learned about love in 2011.
Love Advice To My Younger Self

Love Advice To My Younger Self

What kind of love advice would you give your younger self? Here's what I'd tell the much younger me.
Take My Breath Away

Take My Breath Away

No, this will not be a tribute to the theme from Top Gun. The last few weeks, I’ve been gasping for air. Truly. I’ve had a nasty bout with bronchitis that has had me waking up in the middle of the night, not being able to breathe. Taking shallow breaths...
Confession: Sometimes…I Skip Church

Confession: Sometimes…I Skip Church

I’m participating in a blog series hosted by Ally Spotts called Confessions of a 20-Something Christian, where 20-Somethings get honest about their lives, loves and regrets. My confession is…I sometimes skip church. It started eleven years ago. “We’re pregnant.” Those words, spoken by my nervous older brother and his girlfriend,...
Being Spread Thin is Not Sexy: What I Learned This Summer

Being Spread Thin is Not Sexy: What I Learned This Summer

School is back in session. The cop car sitting outside the local high school reminds me of this, enforcing the 30 mph speed limit in a nice stretch of road that could easily be a 50 mph section. Driving past the school this morning, I watched the long line of...
Vulnerability Sucks: Or what I learned Paddleboarding this weekend.

Vulnerability Sucks: Or what I learned Paddleboarding this weekend.

“The heart of feminity, in essence, is vulnerability.” I was paddle-boarding with a friend yesterday down a stretch of Lady Bird Lake. It was a gloriously hot day and we had peeled down to our swimsuits, ready for water, sun, and exercise. A., is one of my newest friends, a...
The Pursuit of Love

The Pursuit of Love

I’ve been talking relationships again with friends. Imagine that. We were talking about rampant miscommunication between the sexes. How for women, it’s so easy to fall into the trap of reading into things. One of my male buddies recently reminded me that guys really aren’t that complicated. It’s women choosing...
You Are Not An Island: The Wisdom of Simon, Garfunkel, and My Mother.

You Are Not An Island: The Wisdom of Simon, Garfunkel, and My Mother.

When I was a teenager, my mother wanted me to listen to more Simon and Garfunkel. Really, she just wanted me to listen to "I am a Rock." That was because I wanted to be a rock and didn't understand why hearts were meant to break and humanity hinged on...
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Get Beyond The Hot To The Holy

Get Beyond The Hot To The Holy

I have a confession to make. I’ve been guilty of judging churches by how hot the attendees are. It’s true. If there are hot males my age, the chances are I’ll give that church a second chance. I’d be an idiot not to. I’m not a bar hopper so what better place to find a...
Scared in Sweden

Scared in Sweden

Another reader question. This one from a would-be missionary. If you have a question of your own…fire away.   Dear Caitlin, I really feel like God has called me to work with orphans. I’m returning to an orphanage for a few weeks to help some kids out. The orphanage is in Sweden, a place that...
Sadly Single in St. Louis

Sadly Single in St. Louis

This was a real reader question. I’m passing it on to you. Dear Caitlin, It seems like all I hear the women in my church and community talking about is how good guys are so hard to find. I’m really beginning to doubt. I know several guys just like me – great men you’d be...
Don't Give Forgiveness The Finger

Don’t Give Forgiveness The Finger

I never knew I had a problem with forgiveness. I thought that I was good at extending grace, even when my own soul was bleeding. I was giving forgiveness the finger.
Becoming Whole

Becoming Whole

Everyone has their words for 2012. The things they will dwell on and grow from. I have two words but I don't always know how to express them without sounding like a snob.
What My First Boyfriend Taught Me

What My First Boyfriend Taught Me

I saw him at the coffee shop. He had come in for a job interview and I was sure that he would be perfect for the assistant manager. It didn’t matter that she had a boyfriend already. There was something enigmatic about this boy that I knew would be perfect for her. Perhaps it was...
Facts About Texas (As Compiled By An Outsider)

Facts About Texas (As Compiled By An Outsider)

The other night, I started randomly compiling a list of facts about Texas. I was emailing a friend, it was late, and I was in one of those cheeky moods that only happen when you hit the sweet spot of lack of sleep and good cheer. He replied that I needed to post them, so...
Food for My Soul

Food for My Soul

Last night, I picked up a slim volume of poetry from my small bookshelf. The book has followed me across the country, read more in high school and college than after I was freed from the deadlines. It turns out that I was also freed from some of the incentive. A girl who reads sonnets...
You Can't Marry A Hot Vampire And Other Things Keepers Should Read

You Can’t Marry A Hot Vampire And Other Things Keepers Should Read

  Instead of bringing you another guest post, I’m sharing with you some of the things that have been challenging me lately in my quest for love. Well, not in my quest for love per say. My quest to become a keeper. The topic of sexual purity keeps coming up. And it’s a good thing....

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